Feb 2, 2025
Criticism Fuels Growth
Yes, It’s hard to hear criticism.
When someone points out your flaws, the natural response is WTF or in business language "defensiveness".
Of course you want to protect your ego, explain yourself, prove them wrong or even tell them to fuck off. Tempting, isn't it?
But defensiveness shuts down learning.
Instead: Pause. Breathe. Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this? Even though i hate this”
You'll start growing as soon as you start listening not reacting.
When someone points out your flaws, the natural response is WTF or in business language "defensiveness".
Of course you want to protect your ego, explain yourself, prove them wrong or even tell them to fuck off. Tempting, isn't it?
But defensiveness shuts down learning.
Instead: Pause. Breathe. Ask yourself, “What can I learn from this? Even though i hate this”
You'll start growing as soon as you start listening not reacting.
About Max Antonov
I’m Max, a father of two, Product Director & Product Coach from Sydney. I write about leadership, product management
and life.
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