Jul 24, 2020

Reflections on “Atomic Habits” by James Clear

Earlier this year, I finished reading Atomic Habits by James Clear. I'd like to share key insights that have helped me form a couple of good habits. Here is my reflection on Atomic Habits.

'Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones' by James Clear

What is Atomic Habits About?

James Clear gets to the point of what it takes to build healthy long-lasting habits. One of the ideas he puts forward is the power of compounding effect: changes that seem small and unimportant at any given day will compound into remarkable results, if we are willing to stick with them for months and years.

The book offers very clear and easy steps to create the habits you always wanted to inculcate.

Key PointsDescription
The Power of Tiny ChangesEmphasises that small changes can compound over time to produce remarkable results.
Identity and HabitsDiscusses how changing your identity and how you see yourself can influence your habits.
The Four Laws of Behavior ChangeIntroduces a framework for creating good habits and breaking bad ones: Make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy, make it satisfying.
Habit StackingA technique for building new habits by linking them to existing ones.
Systems Over GoalsEncourages focusing on the process (systems) rather than the end result (goals).

I liked the concept. So, I started applying the advice in my everyday life.

Daily Reflections

During the day we are on the ‘Dance Floor’. We are in action, doing things. We aren’t in the right mindset to get on the Balcony to take a look around and get an overview. I had to find the time to go to the Balcony to think, learn and adjust.

I’m not a morning person. Waking up early has always been a struggle. I adjusted my evening routine so that I could get up a bit earlier the next day and have time for a morning walk (especially important while working from home due to the COVID-19 pandemic) and daily reflections.

The routine is simple and similar to a retrospective session:
  • Write up events that happened on the day.
  • What went well?
  • What didn’t go well? How could this have been prevented? How to mitigate the situation if it has already occurred in the past?
  • What do I need to explore/learn next?

It helped me to create the time and space to plan for achieving my long-term professional and personal goals and to live a meaningful life.

Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.


Creating and editing content daily

This blog post is the result of forming a habit to write every day (ok-ok! almost every day). Daily, I allocate 5–10 min for writing, editing and tweaking sentences. Doesn’t seem like a lot but it all adds up in the end.

Using this method, I finally finished and published an article “How THE ICONIC continuously improves customer experience”. Previously, it was sitting in my drafts folder for about six months because I couldn’t find a block of 2 hours to polish it.

Capturing my daily reflections, publishing blog posts and tweets help me to improve my writing. Writing clearly and concisely is a great skill that I’d like to possess. Even though English is my second language, I’m up for the challenge!

You should be far more concerned with your current trajectory than with your current results.


Reading in Russian with my daughters

"Atomic Habits" helped to develop my favourite new habit. The one that I pursue for the benefit of my daughters rather than for myself.

For years, I struggled to get them to practice reading in Russian. It’s hard to carve out half an hour during a workweek while you have other things going on, on a regular basis. On weekends, it is even more challenging since everybody wants to relax, chill out and do fun things together.

Following the advice from the book, I thought I’d start reading Russian for just a couple of minutes every day with each daughter. It felt achievable. There were no excuses.

The girls were very supportive of this idea too because two minutes didn’t sound like a big deal.

Forming a habit

So we began.

The going was slow in the beginning. During the first week, they had to write all the Russian alphabets they couldn’t remember. We had just enough time to finish a sentence. It felt like a useless exercise. “They can’t learn anything in just two minutes per day,” I said to myself but kept going. I’m glad I did.

During the third week, they didn’t ask me about any of the Russian alphabets — they memorised them all. Their reading speed started to pick up and we were able to finish a paragraph within minutes.

Then, I noticed both of them wouldn’t stop reading after the daily time was up. They were genuinely interested in the stories and kept going.

In addition, I have now introduced them to a new concept — User Experience — that I’d love them to learn while still at school. Again, just for a couple of minutes after reading in Russian. One day at a time.

We are building a new habit together. It’s rewarding and feels amazing. It also helps us to bond and spend more quality time together.

Some people spend their entire lives waiting for the time to be right to make an improvement.


Atomic Habits Contents

The book is structured in a way that guides the reader through understanding and applying the principles of habit formation. Below is a detailed breakdown of the contents:

Section Chapter Title Description
IntroductionOverviewSets the stage by explaining the importance of habits and introducing the concept of atomic habits.
Case StudiesReal-life examples of how small habits have led to significant success.
The Fundamentals1The Surprising Power of Atomic HabitsDiscusses the impact of small habits and introduces the concept of compounding.
2How Your Habits Shape Your Identity (and Vice Versa)Explores the relationship between habits and identity.
3How to Build Better Habits in 4 Simple StepsIntroduces the Four Laws of Behavior Change.
The 1st Law: Make It Obvious4The Man Who Didn’t Look RightThe importance of awareness in habit formation.
5The Best Way to Start a New HabitTechniques for habit initiation.
6Motivation Is Overrated; Environment Often Matters MoreHow environment influences habits.
7The Secret to Self-ControlStrategies for managing and controlling habits.
The 2nd Law: Make It Attractive8How to Make a Habit IrresistibleUnderstanding and using the brain’s reward system.
9The Role of Family and Friends in Shaping Your HabitsSocial influences on habit formation.
10How to Find and Fix the Causes of Your Bad HabitsIdentifying and addressing the root causes of bad habits.
The 3rd Law: Make It Easy11Walk Slowly, but Never BackwardThe importance of making habits easy to start.
12The Law of Least EffortReducing friction to make habits simpler.
13How to Stop Procrastinating by Using the Two-Minute RuleBreaking down habits into manageable steps.
14How to Make Good Habits Inevitable and Bad Habits ImpossibleUsing commitment devices and strategies to ensure success.
The 4th Law: Make It Satisfying15The Cardinal Rule of Behavior ChangeThe importance of immediate rewards.
16How to Stick with Good Habits Every DayTechniques for maintaining habits over the long term.
17How an Accountability Partner Can Change EverythingThe role of social accountability.
Advanced Tactics18The Truth About Talent (When Genes Matter and When They Don’t)Understanding the role of genetics in habits.
19The Goldilocks Rule: How to Stay Motivated in Life and WorkBalancing challenge and skill to maintain motivation.
20The Downside of Creating Good HabitsPotential pitfalls of habit formation and how to avoid them.
ConclusionLife LessonsSummarises key insights and encourages readers to apply what they've learned.
AppendicesAdditional ResourcesAdditional resources, templates, and references for further reading.

It’s Your Turn

"Atomic Habits" is a good read. I recommend this book to anyone who is struggling to develop new good habits. Give it a go!

Btw, here's how I developed my reading habit.

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About Max Antonov
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