Toxicity Isn't Leadership

Brilliance doesn't excuse bad behaviour.

Some leaders get away with everything. They shout. Interrupt. Get angry. Dismiss. Their results or tenure buy them silence. People tiptoe around them. Their tantrums get labelled “passion”. But under the surface, the team is hurting. The fear is real. Ideas shrink. Collaboration dies. Turnover spikes. The cost isn't loud. It's quiet...and compounding.

And here's the lie: “We need them”.

No, you don't.

You're just scared of the gap they'll leave. But that gap creates space for healthier leadership, for calmer thinking, for people who can deliver and respect others. High performance doesn't have to come wrapped in chaos. The best leaders know when to push, when to listen and when to shut up.

It's not enough to be brilliant. You have to be someone others want to follow.

Culture gets built by who you promote and protect. Letting toxic behaviour slide, just because someone's talented, tells the whole team one thing: this behaviour is ok. And that message spreads. Fast.

So stop making excuses for bullies. If they can't lead with discipline, they don't get to lead at all.