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A leader, especially an executive, admitting they got something wrong, out loud, in front of the team, is rarer than it should be. When a mistake happens, every...
Jan 21, 2025
Misaligned leadership doesn't announce itself. It creeps in. Slowly. Quietly. Then it wrecks your team.
Leaders think the damage is minor. Temporary. Invisible. But it's not. It's heavy. It's real. It shows up in whisper networks, in backchannel Slacks, in passive standups where nobody commits because no one knows where things are going.
You see it when smart people play it safe. When the loudest voice wins. When meetings drag on because no one wants to be the first to say what everyone's thinking. You feel it in the hesitation. That's the real killer.
Disagreement isn't the problem. Lack of alignment isn't even the real issue. Teams can live with that. What they can't survive is hesitation. Leaders who won't commit. Who won't decide. Who stay neutral until it's too late and now the team's solving the wrong problem. Again.
Indecision isn't neutral. It's destructive. Especially when disguised as “consensus-building” or “being thoughtful.” Teams need a decision. Even the wrong one. Because wrong moves can be corrected. Hesitation can't.
Leaders, pick a path. Say it out loud. Frameworks like DACI exist to make sure the right person is the one doing the saying. Then stand behind it until you know it needs to change.
Make the fucking decision. Your team's already waiting.

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